Social Anxiety Therapy Surrey
At Centre for Psychology, we understand how social anxiety can have a huge impact on your daily life – making you feel more alone or causing challenges in your relationships.
Using Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy, our experienced therapists can support you to combat your social anxiety using evidence-based techniques to gradually help you feel more comfortable in social situations and to feel more confident again.
Tel: 01483 901 429 Email: guildford@centreforpsychology.co.uk
If you find yourself feeling nervous about social situations like answering the phone, starting conversations, speaking to strangers, meeting new people, public speaking, socialising in groups or at work, then you may be experiencing social anxiety.
You might notice yourself worrying about what other people think of you or feeling afraid of being judged or criticised by others. People with social anxiety can worry about doing or saying something embarrassing. Perhaps you worry about others thinking that you are boring, awkward, weird, incompetent, dumb or disgusting.
It can be common to experience physical sensations of anxiety such as shaking, blushing or sweating. You may even find that you start to feel self-conscious about these symptoms and worry about stumbling over your words or struggling to hold a conversation. Often with social anxiety, people also experience low self-esteem, have high expectations on themselves and have self-critical thoughts.
A sense of dread
With social phobia, people can experience anxiety in anticipation of a social event. You might notice a sense of dread, feeling on edge and expecting the worst. In social situations you may feel like you are being watched and are in the spotlight and dislike situations where you are the centre of attention. You might become hyper-aware of the way you are coming across – the way you are talking, your body language, if you are fidgeting, the things you say or the way you look. To manage your anxiety you might find yourself changing your behaviours, such as preparing what you are going to say, speaking quietly, avoiding eye contact, seeking reassurance or using your phone to appear busy. After a social situation, you may also find yourself dwelling on what happening and overthinking what you said or did.
If you know which region you live in, then feel free to complete the referral form for that area. Don’t worry if you don’t know, we will ensure your referral gets to the right place either way. If you are a professional referring a client, then please complete the Professional Referral form.
FAQs
Frequently Asked Questions… for a full list of FAQs, please visit our main FAQs page.
As a service we like to keep our waiting lists as short as possible, therefore we require you to attend all your sessions and we request that you let us know in advance if you are unable to attend an appointment so that your slot can be offered to another client. If you do not attend your appointment and we do not hear from you on that day you may be discharged from our service back to the care of your GP. We do understand that you may have to cancel an appointment due to unforeseen circumstances (e.g., illness) but please let us know.
You can refer yourself by telephone or email. We also accept referrals that come to us from your GP and other external organisations that know your needs. One of our Assistant Psychologists will guide you through the process.
Following your assessment, we aim to offer an initial treatment session within 6 working weeks. Our assistant psychologists work daily on our waiting lists and will contact you by telephone when an appointment becomes available that matches your availability. You are likely to be seen sooner if you are flexible on your appointment time/location. Please let us know if you are able to accept a ‘short notice’ appointment.
It is always helpful to keep us updated about your personal circumstances using the contact details you have been given.
Our aim is to offer you an assessment within 10 working days of your referral to our service. Your assessment will usually be over the telephone. During your assessment, the therapist will provide you with the opportunity to explain why you have referred yourself to the service and what you would like support with. Your therapist will also require you to answer a series of questions about your current thoughts, behaviours, physical symptoms, and emotions. The therapist will work with you to discuss a treatment plan should our service be suitable for you. If our service is not the most suitable service for you, the therapist will discuss alternative services to signpost you to.
Should you be unable to attend a telephone assessment we can arrange for you to attend a face-to-face assessment. This may however be a longer wait based on therapist availability.
Psychological therapy is not like taking physical medication. We all respond differently to psychological therapy. Guidance suggests that attending six sessions of CBT is a good starting point. We ask that you attend your pre-booked sessions, engage with the out-of-session tasks and show improvement on the psychological measures. In return, we will continue to work with you.
Occasionally we may recommend that your GP refers you to a different service. If this happens your therapist will talk about the reasons for such a referral.
That’s okay, our therapists are trained to work with you at your telephone assessment to decide on what is the most appropriate form of therapy for your current difficulties.
To maintain confidentiality we would usually recommend that you attend your sessions individually, however, if you require someone to attend your sessions with you then please let us know when your initial appointment is booked so that your therapist can be informed.
We do not have creche facilities so please arrange appropriate childcare for your sessions.
We predominantly offer appointments from 9am-5pm, Monday to Friday. We are unable to offer individual appointments at the weekend. We do offer evening courses from 6pm-8pm including: Mindfulness and Stress Management, Anxiety and Depression Management, and our Sleep Clinic.
We are a Surrey-wide service and will always aim to offer you an appointment in a location that is accessible to you, however, you may be required to travel a short distance. The location offered to you will take into account the type of support you are accessing, your availability, and therapist availability.
As a way of increasing availability Centre for Psychology also offers telephone and video sessions which are often more convenient to attend. You will still receive the materials you need either by post or via the internet.
We do not provide support for people under the age of 17. If you are under 17 and feel you would benefit from psychological support we would encourage you to book an appointment with your GP who can refer you to the appropriate services.
If English is not your first language this does not mean that you cannot access our service. Our therapists are trained to work with clients using an interpreter which we will arrange for you. Please translate this page to another language by using the button (bottom left) on any page.
If you are registered with a qualifying GP Surgery in Surrey and over 17 years old then all your therapy is free to you. Centre for Psychology is paid by your local NHS Commissioning Group.
If you do not qualify we are still able to provide you with therapy. There are many reasons that you may wish to self-fund your therapy please contact us for our current fee structure.
If you live in England there are other NHS-funded services providing free therapy. Use the following link to find yours:
https://www.nhs.uk/service-search/find-a-psychological-therapies-service
